Author Archives: Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager

I announced to the world that I was back on the market for myself.
When I was in grief counseling the therapist said if we could put math to healing when you lose a mate. It would be 1 month for every year you knew each other. He said that is only if you do the work, which was 18 months for me. I now know it was not by chance that the 18 months ended in February, the month of love.
WHEW! Time came and went! February arrived, I went on the market and I most certainly didn’t even want a man to look at me, but I could see myself loving again, which meant the goal was reached.
The goal told me, you need to love yourself more and then you can love someone else. I am even more ready to love now, which makes me show up for my love life every day! I need to refill my self-love so that my overflow can go to someone else. I want to be able to extend patience and grace when I don’t agree and when I am not in control. I want to love myself more everyday so that I always have love to spare.
I showed up for love today and got annoyed. I could not run to my journal fast enough. I laughed as soon as I started typing….it felt like I hadn’t caught up with my journal girl in a minute!
I was ready to proclaim that I could not handle dating a man that always had something negative to say. I can’t deal with a man that has a lot to say and doesn’t execute ENOUGH.
I was lying though! I can deal with that…I know how to love that around. I’ve done that before. I know how to motivate a man.
The lesson repeats until learned. I knew immediately that me being annoyed means I need to sharpen myself a little more, because if I am irritated out of my peace, I need to look within.
“It’s not you its me” is so real!
Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager

I work for my 10 year old daughter!

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My current situation is waiting to transform

Everything that I don’t like is just a choice away from being removed

I am building my dream life with each new day

Each better choice

Each execution is a win

I am achieving new goals

I am creating new dreams

Consistency is my cheat code

I don’t let the desires of today stop my discipline towards success

I am another day closer to my dreams because of the decisions I made yesterday

People see themselves in me and I can see myself in them, that’s why I work on my dreams out loud

We’re better together

Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager 

The mom behind www.dontbejellyllc.com

My current Situation is waiting to transform

Everything that I don’t like is just a choice away from being removed

I am building my dream life with each new day

Each better choice

Each execution is a win

I am achieving new goals

I am creating new dreams

Consistency is my cheat code

I don’t let the desires of today stop my discipline towards success

I am another day closer to my dreams because of the decisions I made yesterday

People see themselves in me and I can see myself in them, that’s why I work on my dreams out oud

We’re better together

Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager 

The mom behind www.dontbejellyllc.com 

Don’t Be Jelly is a vegan cosmetics business owned by a 10 year old CEO. With the help of her mom she is dreaming big everyday through her purposeful business!

Your donation will have a BIG impact, by providing resources and support to help us grow dreams and development of this young entrepreneur!

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I listen to 2-6 podcasts every day, it use to be 6+, but I have pushed myself to listen to audio books during the day, during the week.  Remind me to read the detail before purchasing.

I am listening to a 12 hour read that is 4 books summarized into 1. I am getting some gems, but it is a hard listen. It is organized very well and I will listen again, but whew this first time around is tough.

I decided last week, that I can’t listen to my podcasts during the work week until I finished listening to this book or I would just quit it. I am always thinking about bringing things to completion. It’s not done, if it’s not done.

Also, I have listened to a lot of podcasts and have not finished all of the learnings. When a chapter is motivating me to take notes, I am normally looking at social media data or prescheduling pre-made content. It allows me to make sure I am really hearing the book and if I can’t tell myself what they are talking about, I do rewind.

If I am going to give my most precious gift of time, I should get the most from it. Multitasking can work, if you plan it with intention. It’s levels to the mastering effective multitasking. It’s all in rotating your actions and planning for daily success.

This is why I make the goals realistic, you cannot listen to a million things during the day and get admin work done, but listening to someone read doesn’t take the same focus, especially if you are taking notes mixed with a mindless task. It’s very similar to studying….I cannot study and listen to  music because I cannot take the test listening to music. I create an environment of success, based on what I am working on. I have done a lot of time studies on myself and offers. Expert planner over here! Another reason, I made this public goal to complete 90 days of consistency. I wanted to show myself that I still had “it” and get the social proof that I practice what I preach.

If I want to listen to more podcasts during this time, it sounds like I need to get up and get my walk in, which I did. When Janelle does not have to go to school, whew life is good. I can ease into the day and do all of the things, I want to do.  New levels, new devils, and new discipline needed.

Work on your dreams today! I am!

Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager 

The mom behind www.dontbejellyllc.com 

Don’t Be Jelly is a vegan cosmetics business owned by a 10 year old CEO. With the help of her mom she is dreaming big everyday through her purposeful business!

Your donation will have a BIG impact, by providing resources and support to help us grow dreams and development of this young entrepreneur!

We send the #jellycrew free products with every order! Check out our social media to see all of the dreams coming true!

Donate here: https://www.powr.io/checkout_screen?unique_label=c5b84a99_1675412068

Every day, I’m going to show up for my dreams, do my part, and lose control.

I am not the teacher, I am here to learn. I’ll do it my way when I’m done being foolish.

Over the weekend, I spent time reflecting on how my 90 days of consistency was going and how it went. AS I type this, I only have 6 more days to go, but much more to accomplish.

I know that 90 days only broke some bad habits, the next 30 days of consistency will be the true test. After 120 days, these everyday actions will be who I am.

I got to walk today and I can already tell what a difference it makes. My Crohn’s had me down for weeks, but I am back, and I could not wait another day. The weather even showed love.

Another day of getting it done and exhausting all options.

Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager 

The mom behind www.dontbejellyllc.com 

Don’t Be Jelly is a vegan cosmetics business owned by a 10 year old CEO. With the help of her mom she is dreaming big everyday through her purposeful business!

Your donation will have a BIG impact, by providing resources and support to help us grow dreams and development of this young entrepreneur!

We send the #jellycrew free products with every order! Check out our social media to see all of the dreams coming true!

Donate here: https://www.powr.io/checkout_screen?unique_label=c5b84a99_1675412068

I start the day with a thank you

Wake up to pee…thank you

Wake up to the alarm…thank you

Wake up in thanks

What if you smiled every time you said or thought “I can’t”

The loudest voice in my head must be mine and must be encouraging myself to keep moving forward towards the goal

I ask myself if I believe in myself in real life

Do I believe that I deserve my dreams

You don’t get the life you deserve, you get the life you decide

Decide today

Decide to try again

Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager 

The mom behind www.dontbejellyllc.com

I am confident

You are confident

Everything you need is inside of you

Say it until you know it’s real, feel it’s reel, and breathe like it’s real

Self – Doubt can sneak in from a variety of places and for a variety of reasons

Past Failures

Negative Feedback

The chase of perfectionism

Comparisons

Imposter Syndrome

What are you pretending not to know

Don’t ignore your blind spots

I refuse to give energy to things that aren’t aligned to the desires of my heart and dreams.

What is your capacity

What is your zone

What is your superpower

How do we stay in the environment that keeps us operating at our best

Actions talk

Actions change situations

It’s a beautiful day to take time and figure yourself out. I’m sharing my internal voice. I’m on a journey to live, learn, love, grow, and grow out loud. My testimony is someone’s survival guide. I’m dramatic in the best ways for the rest of my life.

Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager – The mom behind www.dontbejellyllc.com

Another day to remind ourselves of how confident we are

I should write to my younger self more often. As young as yesterday….

If I could talk to myself yesterday, I would say, you did your best. You did not repeat bad habits, and you showed that you have learned many lessons. You were gentle with yourself, yet you still held yourself accountable.

You did not let “feelings” win

You did a great job

You passed the test

Today- My thought question was – What would I tell my younger self?

This is while I was trying to figure out my finances. “Getting fired on your off day in 2023” – My story is loading. Meanwhile – bills are still here.

It was hard for me to learn how to celebrate myself at the small milestones that are leading to the big dreams.

This is why I share my journals – If I feel a certain way, there are at least 100 other people that can relate.

When you take time to be a witness to your mind, you learn a lot about yourself. The more you know, the better you can do.

Fear is not a real label – When I want to say I am scared – I write out all of those “fears” and I make a plan for each one and a lot of times, I have gotten a little too wild with the negativity.

Then I circle back to the controllables and write a list of every idea I can come up with to solve my problems. I make the most efficient to-do list and I start working it right away.

I recognize when I need extra love, my love language is Acts of Service, and you don’t have to be in a relationship to love on yourself…ummmkayyy.

Anyways – Completing to-do list gives me the same vibes as when a mate takes something off of my responsibility plate.

Be gentle with yourself

Show up for yourself

Show up for your dreams

Consistency is the cheat code

Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager 

Close – So close, but so far is how I feel as I transition into the evening of this day.

So close!

I know I am so close to new beginnings, the only thing that will make me miss it, is if I quit. It’s easier said than done, I know….

So close!

I am so close, to reaching new levels of peace.

So close!

I am so close to living my dreams, that I get confused when I wake up sometimes.

I’m confused because I know “days like this” won’t last and they most certainly won’t last much longer.

On days like today, I search for quick fixes to feel better and the moment I figure out how to microwave me some feel goods, I will let the world know.

It’s a wild feeling to know that everything will be fine, but to still find moments of doubt. Who put that feeling in my stomach? Who created fake fear in my heart?

I won’t blame the past- I already know how that went!

I can’t worry about the future – I haven’t got there yet!

I can control today and I can control what I do and don’t do today.

I always think I am being kind to myself, but I am quickly reminded that I can be kinder and I have capacity to give myself more grace. #villagestrong

I’ve learned a lot of lessons and I should breathe like I have….more often

This morning, I did not know when I titled my live “PUSH” that I would be pushing all day! I am glad that I called it out early. I knew I was going to need extra help sticking to the plan. I wrote out a new to-do list. We could not trust the vibes to motivate us today.

I got more done than I “felt” like doing

I am so close,,,to being complete.

I won’t and I can’t stop now… journaling always helps. Whew! Another day in the books.

Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager

LinkedIn – it’s like a formal social media site that wants you to feel like you all have been working together for years.

You are expected to be professional and yourself at the same time. Connect, but treat every connection like a mini interview.

Today, I noticed that this blog page was posting to my LinkedIn account and that’s what was getting me seen. I preferred that my resume be making traction first, but who am I to control the journey. *sigh*

I then decided, that I was not upset about blending the two, but I decided to use it to my advantage.

Yes, my personal “blog” might be seen, but I am also looking for employment, so why not practice talking about myself and my amazing skillset.

Today, I started working on showing online work/life balance.  Follow me here, there and everywhere.

I’m Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager to I described myself as an employee with organizational effectiveness:

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Having a combination of organizational effectiveness skills along with domain- specific knowledge ensures that I will add value from every seat.

I am a dedicated individual who collaborates well with teams and individuals. I have experience overseeing Talent and Leadership Development strategies that aligned with the company’s mission, vision, and purpose.

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Many of my roles involved steering the team towards sustainable and practical solutions, where they held accountability for ensuring the overall success of project deliverables.