Doing it scared

Doing it angry

Doing it while I smile

Doing it while I cry

Doing it while I think

Doing it

I’m doing ALL the things ALL the time to get to the Dreamy outcome

Fear isn’t real ….. I believe that and now I feel that

Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager

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I woke up a delicate color of pink

What color was your morning?

Mine was pink

“Pink, a delicate color that means sweet, nice, playful, cute, romantic, charming, feminine, and tenderness, is associated with bubble gum, flowers, babies, little girls, cotton candy, and sweetness. The color pink is the color of universal love of oneself and of others.” – yahoo.com

I woke up calm

I woke up ready to move my body and ensure my lovely lady lumps continued to progress in the way I want

I woke up female and feminine

I woke up strong

I woke up refreshed

I woke up energized

I woke up in grace ( My phone died 5 minutes later- What if? I didn’t ask.. no negative thoughts here)

I woke up dreaming and ready to execute on the plan

I woke up with all the answers

I woke up knowing I’m figuring it out in real time

My hopeful spirit is full today

How to duplicate?

Start with these questions:

How do I want to wake up? (Build out your dream morning)

How do you want to feel? (Your body, your skin, your entire being)

What do you want to be doing or getting ready to do? (Who lives with you? What do you do for work, fun, etc)

Be detailed and dramatic with answering these questions. If you can see it in your mind and translate that to paper…..you can have it.

email: yourfavoriteparis@gmail.com if you have questions or you’re interested in a 1:1 Dream Session. (It’s a consultation, not a stars sessions 😉

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June 2023 – #heaven23

Paris continue to find new ways to let go of control.

Release emotions connected to past struggles that have caused pain.

Paris you can be vulnerable without letting intense feelings of grief overwhelm you.

Continue to be a brave dreamer and feel those feelings with no regret.

Let that pain GO!

Let the grief pass through your body and out of your life.

You’re standing in what you’re passionate about and it shows.

A life of harmony is the goal.

June 1st – I’m glad to see you

Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager

Harmony is my goal these days

My problem WAS…. I was fighting to keep control. I wanted things to be my way, even when EVERYTHING around me was being RIPPED away.

I decided a long time ago that I was ready for peace. I thought I could control the elements of my journey. 🫠 It was a devastating shamble!

I didn’t know it would look like this, I definitely didn’t anticipate the magnitude of loss, but eventually I got TIRED! Weak…I could see giving up, but I was too scared to quit.

I decided that I COULD still dream, then I started to love me more, AND THEN I learned I could control the love I had for myself.

I had to start with me. I am refilling everyday because I’m at my best when I’m pouring into others.

Who knew I was so depleted? Me

Who cared then? Not even me

Today? I’m Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager

Heavy on health being my wealth – the kid is watching and my mommas!

I with for her & Don’t Be Jelly – http://www.dontbejellyllc.com

heaven23 – It’s a great day to be alive ♥️

At 4am I JUMPED up happy to workout & work! Energized! Hopeful! Thankful

Take time to dream today

GRATITUDE

I miss you…

I miss your touch

I miss feeling desired

I miss giving away control

I miss having help with Janelle

I miss connecting with another soul

I miss feeling love from a man

Today, I miss Fatmac specifically and I know why. Janelle is turning 10, there are still obstacles we were fighting together that I have to finish alone, and life continues to give me high level experiences.

Instead of the grief reaching the pit of my stomach, I take a moment and assess my sadness. I try and think about how I will communicate these feelings to my future love. I think about how I can comfort myself.

I think

I breathe

I journal it out

I surrender to the feeling, I’m patient with my feelings, I filter out the real, and now I’m left with the present. I’m left with what needs extra self love.

Now,I know how to ask my future mate for help. I know how to say, hug me tighter today. I know how to say I want some extra attention. I also know how to say…I’m not myself and I’m sorry.

I’m Paris Vaughan

Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager

The mom behind : http://www.dontbejellyllc.com

#ControlFreak

#controlfreak – Listening to: I can make you put your phone down

Is it the challenge or is it control?

^{What do you want when you win?}

…it’s what I ask myself when I feel like I’m in a race or triggered.

_{Why does my mind and body feel ready to respond in an elevated way?}

Is it positive rage, fear, anger, or craze?

Is my response my idea or what was done to me in the past? Do I remember the past right?

#controlfreak – what is the context?

I ask myself a lot of questions….these days

These days……

These days…..I can see the end of negative situations.

These days… I can see the need to be more disciplined.

These days, my sacrifice is personal, and the pain is instant.

These days, my choice is the only one that matters because my choice comes first. I worked hard on this subconscious which means I learned more…..goodness the more you know is a mofo! I saw 999 today! (Inspired “These days”)

Thank you for hugging me from above!

I saw 333 today too and I am encouraged!

I am encouraged to keep my self-talk strong.

I am working hard to not ask for more detail than given. I have so many things in my brain that I need to share in my time and in a Paris Fashion.

I am encouraged that I am doing the right things and making the right choices.

Lessons are being learned.

I immediately saw 1212 next – I knew I woke up to my dreams chasing me!

I feel protected and I know that it’s time for more self-discipline. I’m amazing already and I still need to tighten up. It feels good to care about Lady P, Paris Vaughan, and Miss Gray.

Erykah Badu made “Put your phone down” as she went…. to test a new platform. I OVERused the lyrics in too many scenarios, and I was not alone.

Paris- I can make you put your phone down

Paris- I can make you do anything you want…you just have to decide as you go

Test out new platforms

Paris – don’t worry about what you did, what you said, or what happened before.

You stay focused on what you want today to look like tomorrow and forevermore.

I’m Paris Vaughan – Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager

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Let’s start at the end of today!

Today, I connected with people that I can collaborate with on long term projects. I made sure that we shared similar values, but not the same values. I should have talked about their working patterns, but instead I decided to work on my own.

This week every day – I asked myself “Do you feel like you need to take action?” – The answer “Yes” has intensified daily. Feelings of stuck, alone, sad, mad, abandoned have been inviting themselves into my subconscious. My energy is being transferred a tad faster than I can replenish in order to operate at my ideal potential.

It’s an amazing feeling, but it’s exhausting and the old versions of me want to complain, vent, and cry about it every day. I could cry typing as I think about all of the barriers standing on my neck today, but then my soul starts crying which makes my face smile because I also think about all the barriers I’ve overcome while being able to add value to others.

I use to say that favor wasn’t fair, but it is. I have this amount of grace because I am a good person. I have this amount of struggle because I am human. I have this amount of trauma because I live on Earth with other humans. Every choice has a consequence….good or bad. What you pour out comes back. I am working double time to pour into myself so that I can pour out more.

I crave more peace so I must give more peace to others.

I deserve vengeance so I am going to fight for others first.

I am working to have it ALL, so I’ve given my all my entire life.

Now I know how to prioritize like a dreamer. Now I know how to love me more first.

Now I know how to win forever.

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I’m Paris Vaughan – Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager

Slow Down Paris!

Slow down Paris:
Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager

I celebrate when I think “I forgot” to do something, but it’s actually already #done

BREATHE deeper Paris Vaughan

I laugh when I feel that “anxious” or “scared” feeling of panic. I laugh because I’m not overwhelmed, I forgot I’m lit and I already have a plan written. I just need to be healthy enough to execute.

I’m often nauseous… Crohn’s + Life = 🫠

I grab ice

I open a window

Set the vibe

Breathe deep and slow- open mouth

If you need help- make it a point to find a guided meditation that doesn’t annoy you.

When my most precious gift : TIME is under pressure, I take a nausea pill.

1/12/23 – Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager

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Save some peace for later

My mind is always focused on my next level of peace.

I can’t sit in the troubles of today and think that my dreams will be ready to go tomorrow.

I sit in the troubles – I’ve tried to speed this part up and I would not recommend. Extremely ghetto

I feel the troubles – whewww the pain of grief, abandonment, and all the “things”

I analyze how the troubles got so close – why me, why them, why, why, why, why, why, and why again.

Then I dream my special dream!

A dream for a better next moment.
#dreambigger

I dream so big that sometimes I forget that there are only 1,440 minutes in the day.

Then I start!

The secret is consistency. Every good thought, task, and every great change counts! It goes into your peace bank!

All we have to do is save our peace!

Saving my peace looks like: Loving me a little more everyday

#Heaven23 – 1/8/23

Heaven must be like this, it must be like this! – sing it with me!

I woke up, the sun was shining, and a small breeze was coming through the window.

Sickness use to wake me up out my sleep
Sadness would keep me awake
Anger would make me puke
Stress gave me nausea and sent my Crohn’s to the king
The list gets longer, but #heaven23 doesn’t have those things!

One morning, I closed my eyes and I started dreaming about how I wish I felt when I woke up.

Then I decided, to try and recreate my favorite morning. It was painful!

Im still working on it, but it’s coming along lovely. It only works if I stick to the plan. I have to listen to my MIND, BODY, SOUL, & FINANCES!

This is why we’re giving 111 #singlemommies $1000 to start their emergency fund.

There are mommies just like me, that need the same help.

https://gofund.me/fbc79a7f

It’s #heaven23 – The Year Earth Feels Like Heaven

When it doesn’t, take a moment, and adjust that ish!

I’m Paris Vaughan! Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager

The mom behind the dream of Don’t Be Jelly