For years! I flew home to UNK for tattoo

A little heart here
A little something there

Always
Always
Always with Christina, but it started with my Bridgette. I owe so many cousins so many tattoos, but there is a method to my body art! 😂

You’d think I’d be getting huge pieces! (My Pinterest board says different.)

And we had a nerve to be on a budget! Like an annoying budget.

Me: I’ve already booked the appointment or if I couldn’t get in- GOD clearly said no ink!

All that to say! UNK is a legend!

UNK ain’t even made no money off me in real life… YET
UNK didn’t even sign up to be the family artist… HE IS

UNK is the standard… He keep raising that mofo too

It got ugly down here in Texas behind my tribute tattoo, because I knew better than to trust someone new with my dreams so freely!

She’s made up for it… shout out the female owned & last I checked, she only hires women! It is a vibe and I highly recommend! They are killing it! Ask for Saleen! Show her my pic and she will love you like she loves me! I’ve made them enough money, no more tags, only respect & my continued support)

However,
UNK always laughs
UNK is never loud
UNK don’t mess up & he not about to let you mess him up either

Anytime he laughed back at my goofyyyy ass! I knew he meant it, because I clowned for no reason!

Then I whispered my tea party dreams to UNK and he said yes with no additional questions.

My family has that same energy of greatness!

My first tattoo by a man in Bloomington, In – he died from a overdose, but the detail in my Eiffel Tower, people still don’t believe me when I tell them he did it freestyle! We did our consult , he did the paper trace, but the detail was all him. It was loud in there, dirty, it was under $200. When he passed, people thought it was funny to say…omg you let a crack head do your tattoo. First off, we don’t even know if it was crack

My tattoo is not giving crackhead lines – anyway! Pause- 4:30am I moved this from Facebook to here

2:55am and another single tear like in the movie, but this tear was NOT fear, this tear was sad. Paris you KNOW the risk of sharing with the world and you KNOW you don’t have the capacity! you know better, so you do better! Write it out over here! Learn out loud without bullying your audience- breathe over here! Create the space first!

Next time remember you promised yourself, you’d document the start time

Next time – what was your intent – go back there

Next time- use your resources or don’t! You know the risk- 2:59am

Welp friend * Text me gurllaaaaaaa to laugh, this “escalated”*

buzzwordtherapy (wow) I had to type that out! Baby tag a therapist! I’d pay to play in this space!

Whew! It’s 2:44am! We’re back up here and this is #whatpariscallsfun – NOW I laugh when people can’t understand me, because I’m so excited to have direction. I can fix that! I can find you if I lost you, but I gotta know when I lost you! The faster you can tell people like Paris”- (sooooo jelly is singing grease in the back, I thought this was her first time 👀) – I gotta go! Jelly is now laughing too! It’s now 2:48- my goodness when did I start this?

Now imagine if I had a meeting in a few hours!

I’m not nauseous anymore if anyone wanted to know that part- I have built in love that helps me keep up with my nausea – remember it took 5 years to even put a name to my insides

My goodness it’s 2:50 am- time flies “when you’re having fun”

buzzwordtherapy

Ok—— this post started a while ago! – it’s now 2:40am and this part is new!

This below ⬇️ is where I started and this my friend is why you pay a perfessional, because if you can’t keep up with me, and I- (I say bye)

🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠 – I apologize at the end friends 🙈🙉🙊🐵

Baby! Teach yourself how to apologize as an adult and mean it! 🤮🤮 the most painful and beautiful experience- (2:43 am add – now how & why did you add this here PAris)

It’s actually saying that’s what you GET for laughing at PARIS!

Whewww and this is even better because if you comment then you’re revealed! Whewwwwwww

If a post isn’t sharable – maybe it’s private and shouldn’t be shared unless protected.

Just a thought – I currently get paid to think about things like this in so much detail that I have to take a pill for that!

Let that sink in when you bring your energy to world, today!

Some of us take a pill for that! For life!

Let me go to my safe place Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager – visit me there! I’m awake and watching grease with jelly! Thanking sweet baby Jesus that I took today off! who knew I would need it?

Ohhhh me- I knew! History repeats itself and when Paris doesn’t love herself , her body fights her , and then if she doesn’t catch it fast enough….. this could stop the entire next 30 days and get expensive fast!

Now!

She gets to laugh at her friends on social media and then try to explain her sanity! Because #benefits

Me! It’s me! It’s definitely

🌍 I’m sorry

I was literally just trying to live! I was doing my best! Nowwww I’ve worked so hard and so well that I can puke in peace at 2am on a work day

I’ve been typing and editing this wayyyy tooo long for my Friyay vibes! Sooooo imma drop this link again https://gofund.me/fbc79a7f

Yeaaaaa telling people your dreams is scary!!! Imagineeeeee how long I thought about it before doing it! Humph just a thought

I had back to back calls the week my love left
I had back to back meetings
I had bills
I had deadlines
I had shit to do

I also quickly learned how to read oxygen levels
I quickly adjusted to the new nurses & ALL nurses so that shift change went smooth
I had calls with doctors ( ever waited in a hospital for a doctor – imagine waiting in another state and during COVid, the patient is day 5 icu, and its COVID!)

I feel like I’m a pro at handling nausea, but it’s a new year and I’m down for new relief

1 – I have meds they work fast, but I use those when it’s serious – like while driving, intense mtgs, and yaaaa know places where puking in public is frowned upon

2 – BREATHING is my secret weapon and the most long lasting relief, but sometimes it’s not fast enough – there are levels to nausea

Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager

Heavy on the healthy

I speak nausea because I know people & I am people!

My pregnancy was THEEE worst! I worked full- time with men and smells & I bartended with drunks & smells & I lived life with humans and smells. 26 hours of labor , epidural complications, anddddddddd I puked after!

All while creating my beautiful daughter – worth it

I speak nausea because I know people & I am people

I also have Crohn’s Disease that took almost 5 years to diagnosis! Google and learn more! The amount of ignorance & and inconsiderate people, you must endure while in the most paralyzing pain is BEYOND me! I can only compare it to, trying to comfort my sickle cell family during crisis. They would look like beautiful angels, silently crying, and praying to get a good nurse, F the doctor.

I speak nausea because I know people & I am people

My mother died by suicide
I lost people that I thought I’d never survive without
I’ve been physically assaulted in front of my daughter
I’ve called off an engagement & relationship
I reconnected with the love of my life – COVid slapped that shit out my hands

I’m actually awake because I’m nauseous and if this wasn’t winter break…. I’d have 5 hours to pull it together before school.

I didn’t even finish my list above
I didn’t plan on sharing all of this tonight

BUT

MommiesLoveBedtime & I know there are at LEAST 100 mommies awake, nauseous like me, and it debt.

Say it again :
Paris is all over the place
Paris just be talking
Paris be rambling
Paris slow down
Paris your so loud
Paris you didn’t tell me
Paris you didn’t call me
Paris I didn’t know that
Paris when did you start that

Paris
Paris
Paris
Paris

Shit changed when I started, when I needed, when I lost Paris

This was good work tonight Paris

https://gofund.me/fbc79a7f

Journaling freely and with intention to social media is ok!

Who YOU follow is when it gets tricky! Follow & Unfollow based on yourself

You can add them back – the button doesn’t disappear! I tested it

Thank you for reading! It’s been about 2 hours and my tummy is calm! Ice cubes, breathing, cold bathroom floor, and music is my favorite puke scene! Get an Alexa! Wash your bathroom rug often and make you a floor kit! Tissues, nausea pill, face cloth!

We got this

Oh and take a PTO day, don’t save it! You’re important

Make Set Boundaries, Find Peace! You can change your boundaries as needed.

Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager

The journey begins with the first step.

Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager

What do you want this morning?

How will you get it?

How will you know you’re done?

The dreamiest and highest version of yourself is a dream away. Wake up as her

I am the best version of myself in the making, I am glad I found her….myself

Paris Vaughan

Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager