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It’s been 1 year, 1 month and 30 days since August 24, 2021.

That’s 1.164 Years

That’s 13.943 Months

That’s 60.714 Weeks

That’s 425 Days

That’s 10,200 Hours 

However, today at 5:34 am on 10/24/22

It’s been all that time and today I didn’t remember until typing this about how the 24th of every month use to kill me.

For the first time during my workout- The PAris workout, I bent to stretch and I could hear him say…you better get to that goal baby yasssss… I miss my hype man, but today I laughed. A genuine laugh

It’s not coincidence that yesterday I listen to April Daniel’s talk about how she is 3 years after her losing her husband. I felt so hopeful.

Today! Whatever your pain, joy, or journey is…don’t stop. All those good choices are building pressure!

Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager

Paris Vaughan

#LLFATMAC

The love of my life. Oh and he knew I needed his entire family. It’s been alllll those days and they are still here. They’ll even be here this WKND! They got me and I got them! He always told me, he had it handled. Whewww thanks for the hug babe 💙

My subconscious is safe!

I listened to a podcast that said we stop being sponges around the age of 7 or 8. My daughter is 9 and I automatically did a replay of her first 8 years.

Dammmyyyyyy! It’s filled with grief, anxiety, abandonment, change, and more.

Before I went into mommy failure mode, I started to think of everything I’ve done and am doing to heal my subconscious mind so that I can continue to pour into my daughter. It’s not too late!

Detach from the outcome of things… our dreams are too big to really hold all of that desire.

Start big and then make small steps forward

There will be disappointment… embrace it!

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One of my favorite- “Get your ISH TOGETHER PARIS”  You know…when you feel yourself spiraling. Just me?

What do I have to do in the next 4 seconds, 4 minutes, 4 hours? Get fancy and add 4 weeks….. I just know that I can chill and just worry about the minute I am in and the 3 minutes ahead versus trying to solve it all.

444-

What does 444 mean?

444 is a sign that one should keep faith and that the angels are watching over one. They have taken it on themselves to guide one to a brighter future. If one sees this number, especially if it recurs, it is an indication that one should give up all doubts on issues related to ambitions and act decisively

Definitions for these….coming soon

#mommieslovebedtime

#parentsbehindthedreams

#bragsisbrag

I took the love language quiz AGAIN, because I’ve been wanting to plan a self love challenge dare.

I wanted to be intentional with my self love, so that I can learn when and how to refill my love energy. I’m also very intrigued with how trauma of any kind impacts how we respond to things

I highly recommend The Body Keeps the Score.

I can’t give love from a empty or broken cup. My example I love to give is… everything is just like on the plane! Give yourself oxygen 1st and then do all that you can for others.

My highest score was Acts of Service

Today mom walks in and says….Hey, I’ll pick up Janelle from school today for you.

Everything is energy and honey Bernice wa talking my language. Thank you

Align your mind to the desires of your heart

Today is be on purpose day.

I know these random days to help with Janelle’s marketing, but this holiday will be saved and repeated.

Today on purpose I woke up early… I haven’t been able to read like I plan so I had to add more “awake” time 😩😳💪🏽

I’m also working purposely on my subconscious health

What do I need to release?

I release guilt aka worry

I release the guilt and worry of thinking I’m not doing the right thing

I release the guilt of unfinished conversations

I release the guilt and worry of the past

I release the guilt of rushing sadness

I release the worry on controlling the future

What else will I do on purpose today to make this holiday mean more next year?

Be on Purpose today

Your Favorite Healthy Hustling Momager

Paris Vaughan

As I often sit and think about you for hrs and hrs I realize more and more that you were preparing me for this.

“The goal was never to hurt you, only show you what you deserve.” – MacBear

I could agree….I can be a bit emotionally unavailable, but it is not without justification.

You loved me beyond my mean, beyond my pain, and into growth.

Listening to this song, I wish you could hear it! We realized what we had was rare and we made sure to not take moments for granted.

The standard is set, he completed the mission of showing me what I deserve.

We had plans…

Hrs and Hrs…. When I met you, I knew this was it. Rest in my love. #LLFATMAC

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